Ladies, We Can Change the World

Not only because we're able to grow a human inside of us, but other reasons too. And it's quite easy, really.

Guys, before you run away from this post, know that this has a lot to do with you, too. If your girlfriend, sister, wife, or daughter mention using the following methods, try to learn about it too. Willingness to learn and to be comfortable with it will reflect your maturity about the subject.

Note: I've mentioned a brief summary about this in a previous post, but I believe it deserves more attention.

THE PROBLEM
Take a moment to count the number of disposable pads and tampons you use in one cycle. Or you can make an estimate by remembering how often you buy a box. With an estimate, multiply that by the number of times you menstruate in one year. Then multiply that by the difference between the age your mother hit menopause and your age right now.

Example: Let's say you have a very light period and you only use 10 pads/tampons per month. Let's say you have an average cycle of 28 days, so you menstruate approximately 13 times a year. I'm going to pretend that I'm 30 years young, and have about 20 years before I hit menopause.

10x13x20=2,600 pads/tampons in the next 20 years

This is a very, very conservative number. Now let's take a look at a girl who just began menstruating (age 13), has a regular period, a regular cycle, and her mother hit menopause at age 53.

20x13x40=10,400 pads/tampons in her lifetime

That's a lot of trash that goes into garbage dumps. Moreover, most disposable pads/tampons are bleached, and are actually not that sanitary. This article wonderfully explains some dangerous ingredients that these disposable products contain. So how do we change this?

THE SOLUTION
Reusable products, of course. :)

Now bear with me, this may seem weird, but I promise promise promise you, you can find one that you like.

1. Menstrual cups. These stay inside of you like a tampon, but they don't suck all the good stuff out. Instead, they collect fluid, and you empty it.

PROS:

not harmful (made of medical-grade silicone)

space-efficient (it's small, so you can store it anywhere)

you can wear it up to 12 hours

you can use it for years (I've had mine for 5 and it's still going strong)

virtually leak-free

CONS:

it takes a couple of months to learn how to use it

BRANDS (click for website):

DivaCup

Keeper/Moon Cup

La LunaCup

Lunette

MiaCup
MoonCup
SckoonCup

     FAQs

     Isn't it gross? Nope. It's actually not.

     Does it fit? This is the most common question I hear. I understand why you ask, because I used to ask the same thing before I mustered up the courage to just try it. Here's the down-low. Your body can push a baby out of it. So yes, it fits. Also, it really isn't that big. Approximately 2 inches long and 1.5 inches in diameter, depending on the brand. Rest assured that menstrual cups are flexible, soft, and sturdy.

     Does it leak? If you insert it correctly, no. You can walk, drive, hike, and ride a bike normally and notice it much less than a tampon.
     But... but... how do I do it?! It does take a bit of learning, but there's an online community that can answer personal questions for you. Don't let all the questions scare you. There are a lot of women who are eager to share their advice, and there are YouTube videos that explain further, such as this one (don't worry, a wine glass is used for the example). And there are instructions in the box. :)

2. Cloth pads. These are exactly what they sound like, except they are often made with really cute patterns and you'll actually like getting them out every month.

PROS:

non-invasive

easy cleaning (throw them in the wash at the end of your period)

last for as long as you take good care of them (>5 years)

thinner than disposables (yay for not feeling like you're wearing a diaper!)

soft, comfy fabrics (cotton, silk, fleece, hemp, flannel)
they really are super cute

CONS:

extra laundry

BRANDS (also use as resources):

GladRags
LunaPads
New Moon Pads
PIMPs

Sckoon

Cloth pads get so pretty I can stare at them for hours. But that's kinda weird so I won't. Also, try Etsy for tons more. You can even make your own :)

In sum, cups and cloth pads are eco-friendly, wallet-friendly, and body-friendly! There are so many to choose from, it's ridiculous. In the best way. *tear* Please excuse me while I go frolic because I just discovered so many new brands. For more information on reusable products visit this website.

TL;DR: All the cool kids are using menstrual cups and cloth pads. What are you waiting for?

Gardens Will Save the World

Have you ever had a garden? If yes, awesome! If no, I'm with you, friends. But over the past year, I have become utterly convinced that gardens will save the world. So this spring, I'm planting one. I'm going to go through the process step by step, with beginner instructions on how to do everything as it comes along.

I have the privilege of being guided by a master gardener, my boyfriend. (Hey boyfriend!) Because you may not know anyone who is a gardening buff, I am here to relate my learning experience to you, in the simplest way. So stay tuned for posts that start with the word "garden" (and every other post). :)

WHY GARDENS WILL SAVE YOU & THE WORLD 

1. A garden will save your wallet. Less trips to the grocery store means less money spent on gas and less time in the car. Now if you must spend time in the car and you happen to abhor it, please see this post. Also, you can grow fresh, organic produce in your yard/balcony, and pay a fraction of what it would cost at the store. Anything you don't eat during the growing season, you can preserve and enjoy in colder months.
2. A garden will save your health in two ways :)
1. Food. I'm assuming that if you grow vegetables, you will at least try eating them, right? The overwhelming message from doctors is to eat more whole produce. Just Google it. Honestly, I don't think that your main source of food should be from a processing plant. Is it even food if it has so many unknown ingredients in it? You can also avoid ingesting pesticides and herbicides typically found in/on commercial produce.
2. Exercise. Maintaining a garden involves moving around. You'll be required to go outside and *gasp* even get some vitamin D while you're at it. Getting exercise by gardening has an advantage over going to the gym--you're getting fresh air rather than stale air. And no one is watching you. Except for GoogleEarth.
3. A garden will save your taste buds. Raise your hand if you know what kabocha is. You are missing out, my friend. It's a delicious squash, and while you may not like squash, there are so many varieties of all kinds of vegetables, you are bound to be astonished that these things even exist. Stores only carry a few varieties at most. You can grow a tomato that is so scrumptious, you can bite into it as a snack. You probably don't believe me. Please try.
4. A garden will save your social life. Make your garden a social project too. Get a couple of friends or family members on board. You can learn and share knowledge together. You can also split up the labor. Even better, recruit some kids. Your children, younger cousins, neighbors, etc. are the next generation. If we spread the awesomeness of gardening to them too, we'll be in even better shape for the future.
5. A garden will save the earth. This is the big one. So big I have to split it up! :)
1. Less garbage. This works in multiple ways. First, you can compost produce you eat now to make (yes, literally make) dirt for your garden. Then you can compost things from your garden (like it's feeding itself :)). Also, buying less food from the store will reduce the amount of garbage in your kitchen. Less plastic bags, less cans, less bottles, you get the point.
2. Smaller carbon footprint. By planting a garden, you are reducing your carbon footprint. I don't care if you believe in this or not, it is common sense that the less traveling your food does, the yummier it is going to be. So if you aren't doing it for the earth, do it for yourself.
3. Less pollution. I know I haven't discussed meat in this post at all, but this is relevant. By eating a more vegetable-based diet (and I'm not saying you have to go vegetarian or vegan or anything), you will be reducing the demand for CAFO animals. These are basically factory farms that are not sustainable and are creating a lot of trouble (including hyper-resistant disease and a lot of concentrated animal waste). With your saved money from having a garden, try buying Amish-raised meat, or find a local, sustainable farmer to buy meat from. Then you can see how things should be run. 
4. More variety. Every biologist knows that gene variety is important for resistance to negative events (weather, disease, etc.). By planting a wider variety of plants, you allow for greater variation among open pollinated crops. This actually increases food security. Also, if you were the earth and someone planted the same things in you all the time, you'd get pretty bored wouldn't you?
5. Appreciation. I truly believe that the key to taking care of the earth is to first appreciate it. My accounting teacher (of all people!) said something a few months ago that made my heart go thump-thump. wait. what? thumpthumpthumpthump. That probably doesn't make sense, but here's what he said, "We do not depreciate land. Why? Because it will always be there for you." It will always be there for us. We choose whether we return the favor.

If you are skeptical about starting a garden, I highly recommend Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. You can get it at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, and probably your public library. It is also available as an audiobook.

If you are unable to garden, for any reason, then this website is a wonderful resource to find farmer's markets. You can also become a member of a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture), and receive boxes of yummy vegetables as they come into season. If the link isn't working, the URL is http://www.localharvest.org/

TL;DR: Will you start a garden with me this year?

How to Make Driving Fun

While I don't advocate driving just for the experience (unless you're learning, that's important), 75.7% of U.S. commuters drive alone to their job. Alone. Allll byyyy themselvesssss. And while I'm not trying to be depressing here, it is not only inefficient (you can carpool), it is a time that I hear commuters complain about regularly. Here are some ways you can make your commuting experience positive. Then when your coworkers are complaining about their commute, you can smile and send them to read this list.

1. Carpool. I know some people don't have this option. You may be the only _______ Co. employee in a three county radius. And you may have different positions, which might make having a set time to arrive and leave difficult. So that's fine. If you do happen to leave near someone though, suggest carpooling. It will give you someone to talk to, and at the same time you can split gas costs.
2. Grab an audiobook from the library. When I first started driving, I was unhappy because I couldn't read as a driver. Super lame that I have to keep my eyes on the road, right? But several months ago, I discovered the lovely benefits of borrowing an audiobook from the public library. I was wary of becoming drowsy while listening to it, but it actually kept me more alert. I do switch off between music, an audiobook, and silence, though. It keeps me more on my toes. :) See my "book resources" tab above for recommendations.



Note: I don't suggest wiggling your head so much.

3. Get some exercise. Move that booty! On long drives, when I don't want to stop to let the blood flow back to my bum, I play some music to squeeze my glutes to. (Against my better judgment, I am telling the world personal information because I don't want you to suffer "dead-butt." It's really uncomfortable when your butt falls asleep.) I also wiggle my arms around (always keeping one on the wheel) and do a small gecko groove.
4. Drive in silence. It may be weird at first, but I get to those points where I just need to be able to think in silence, and it's very enjoyable. If you have a crazy-busy world with a lot of noise, try this out, you might like it. It's also easier to think-out-loud if there's no audio playing. Which brings me to my next point.
5. Talk to yourself. Yeah, you might feel silly. You may also feel awesome! Sometimes I don't even realize that something is on my mind or bothering me, until I let it out. Warning: I don't recommend this if you are prone to crying (joy, sadness, it might still get you).
6. Notice something new on every commute. It's amazing what paying attention can do. I can't tell you how many times I've driven past something and not even processed it exists. Now, staring out the side window probably isn't the best idea, but try to remember one or two new restaurants or such every day. You'll also develop a better memory about the area, and perhaps even discover a new place to eat.

I sincerely hope you enjoy your time driving. It's time that can be fun, I promise.


TL;DR: Your commute is what you make of it. Make it fun!


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